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Sunday, 20 August 2006
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11. Random pics and fun stuff

At the LCCT, members savour their last meal...
Where we slept...some of us strengthened our back muscles...while some injured their back and buttocks...it's no joke sleeping on hard surfaces for 7 nights
This was how we wash our dishes and brushed our teeth at the well. Then that's the place where we had our breakfast and supper. As our tummies couldn't take the local water, we had to buy them.
Mr Pony, our transport. Aaron's relative
Debbie Debbie and Debbie...hmm...:)
They say a picture is worth a thousand words. Thus, I am left speechless...
It's okay boy, I know we're far from home but there really isn't a need to cry...(I took this pic while he was gonna sneeze)
They were performing a dance for us. This is what they wear in the palace and dance to welcome the king
Hammocks are nice..hammocks are cool...hammocks are good for me and you...
A very sweet little girl, Rose-Sharon
Di mana ada kucing, di situ ada Janice
Our morning devotions...we sit, we posed and looked thoughtful. Joel is a great poser. He obeys as instructed.
Cambodian greeting. Daniel and Jonathan.
While taking photos of others, they didn't realize they were being taken too...
Eee...I also want to join in! What are you guys so excited about?
They look like they're watching a football match
Having our lunch in someone's house we do not know...ahh..life in Cambodia is so relaxingOur debriefing sessions...a time we spent in the night as a team sharing what we experienced during the day
Eau de Arm Peet, orizinally by Aaron, first guinea-pig, JoelKhmer Life. Hand-made bags very suitable for gifts.
A very happy Julia with a very new bag
It's just rare to find guys appreciating hand-craft stuff. Look at his amused face. I wondered what he was staring at.
Then I found my answer.
Leisure moments..masa yang aman dan muhibah..
Sarah looking far and deep in thoughts...After a long hard week, we relaxed via massage. This is what Julia puts it as, child labour.
But later on, Debbie Debbie got sayang him lah...dear Daniel. He's so cute.
At the Chin's house in Phnom Penh
The girls praying. I thought it was cool to take this. Well...I still think it is.
Alright girls, here's the plan. Once you've taken all their belongings, follow route to escape. Remember to tip toe. Don't trip over Aaron's foot.
Aiyo, Aaron...why look so serious? The beef noodles and porridge not enough ah?
We came heavy, we leave heavier...mentally, spiritually and most of all...physically...Our lunch place. I wonder if they served food like that in heaven...and Julia got a really large coconut till it cannot even fit the cup. Oh...so...unfair!
I tried making this look arty-farty..but it looked more fart than art!Yeah...we just like standing around..
I'm....so vain.....I probably think this song is about me...I'm so vain....
Meet Cri-Kee..from Mulan. It's dead now. MuahahahHahaa!!So sad....so sad.....it's a sad sad situation....goodbye Kampuchea..
Inside Phnom Penh International Airport (PoPIA - abbreviation by Joel)
Since we got delayed, I got bored and therefore worked my camera.
Dum dum dum dum...Chief....Trousers First! (A very frustrated and tired Kau Sern because of Joel's sequence game)Phnom Penh International Airport. Thanks for the wishes, but I hope it's not meant for my noodles...
Smiles, laughter and happiness. Air Asia, now everyone can fly.
Mystery boy. Appears in cameras facing backwards. Win a trip for 2 to Hong Kong if you can give me his name. (Prize for this contest is not real)
Saturday, 19 August 2006
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10. Markers to Commemorate
On the last day of our trip, Sarah did devotion in the morning and reminded us that we needed to remember the lessons we have learnt from this trip, rather than just forgetting it. Like the Isrealites in the Old Testament, they always forget what God has done for them. God did so much wonders like parting the Red Sea, bringing down manna from the sky, setting them free from Egypt, but yet, He is just forgotten. We don’t want to be like that. That would be a waste. That’s partly the reason why I’m doing this blog, so that when I myself read it again, I can remember all the photographic memory I currently hold, which I know wouldn’t be long. That’s why also I’m rushing to finish this blog, as the days pass, I forget more and more. So yeah, it’s good I vomit everything out here. I don’t want this trip to be just another trip, but having important markers that I can commemorate.
Here’s what I learnt:
1) God constantly telling me ‘Don’t worry…don’t worry and just rely on Me for I can do wonders through you’.
2) I’ve gained a part of my soft heart, as it grew cold over the years. In the sense of being more sensitive towards those around me and having empathy.
3) Being less selfish, not always focusing on my own needs but taking interest in the needs of others. Help others when I can, and not focusing so much on my own comfort.
4) How important it is to be real to people. People don’t want to hear airy-fairy stories about our lives, they want to hear the ‘bad’ in our lives as well, so they can identify that they are not alone.
5) My burdens are not as big as it seems. There are worst.
6) To love my country, be thankful for Malaysia. Be thankful for our government and our history.
7) Not always having the criticizing tongue, but to learn to be more grateful of what I have. In fact, God pointed out to me that I have so much more than many around me. I’ve never really learnt to be thankful for that, and even threw away some things He gave me.
8) One of the morning devotions, I saw an image of a person kneeling down with hands stretched out in a receiving posture. This verse spoke to me, 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” There fore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong”.
Christ reminded me once again, that the wider I opened my arms, the more I can receive, and the more I can give. I need to ‘empty’ myself in order to gain the goodness He wants to pour in my life. But many times, we are so afraid to let go of what we have. We’re afraid of losing everything because we’re short-sighted and cannot see what God has in store for us. We’re just so afraid of going through some pain. We forget that God has proven to us many many times that He has been there all along.
Christ reminded me, that I’m already an ‘adult’ in my walk with Him. I no longer need milk, but I need solid food. My relationship with Christ shouldn’t be based on feelings, so I need to take a step of faith to move forward and be strong.
9) Last but not least, it’s always about God in life, not about us.
J
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9. Team Members
Initially, there were 10 of us in this team. We had Kau Sern, Aaron, Sarah, Debbie Loh, Dennis, Denise, Joel, Jo-Ann, Julia and myself. However, later on, Dennis couldn’t make it because he couldn’t apply for leave. Denise too, I’m not very sure of her reason, but her parents disapproved of her going. Then we had Debbie Yeow (nick name: Debbie Debbie) to take over Denise’s place. I hope I’m not confusing you. But it was fun introducing ourselves to the Cambodians because our names were really similar. They must be wondering that Malaysians have very little names. Haha! I introduced myself as ‘Jan’ so that they can remember better.
The best part about this team is that all of us have a sense of humour. Our most favourite word would be ‘lameness’, as we call ourselves. It all started from Aaron. (Sorry Aaron…I just had to tell the world about you) Aaron is the live wire of our team. I guess without him, it wouldn’t have been so easy going. The jokes, too many to note down, makes us all relax and thus, enables us to concentrate better on what we’re supposed to be doing rather than wasting our time and energy worrying about how to do it. We had so many crazy fun moments together, and I’m so glad our paths crossed this way. We may never ever be in this situation again; therefore every moment was savoured during this trip through journaling, photos and clips.
Let me generally ‘introduce’ my team members to you, as in what sort of person they are. Each of us also gained a new nickname after this trip. So in case we mention some jokes, you may understand what we’re talking about.
Kau Sern, my brother-in-law is a very relaxed person. He manages the team well, and doesn’t put unnecessary stress on us. He is humble in learning and a silent learner, in the sense that he observes behind the scenes and ponders about what he learns. He also journals what he has learnt. Later on he shares his heart to us, what he saw and what touched him. Being a team leader for the first time, he has done very well and has given his best. Time and time again he assures us and encourages us to spur us on. It’s not easy being a team leader, plus he had to look after Jo-Ann when she wasn’t feeling well, juggling the time between his ministry and being a good husband. That’s why I said he did very well because everything was handled smoothly. Occasionally, he gets confused with Joel’s jokes and games, and he is very nice to bully. He can be very blur sometimes and that makes him even more funny to laugh at. But he is cool with it. Kau Sern has sanguine and mellow moments, a mix of both. He is a serious person most of the time and I felt it was a good match to have Uncle Aaron to be his assistant because they work well together. We discovered that his name ‘Kau Sern’ means ‘Trousers First’ or ‘Pants First’. So he is called Chief Trousers First.
Aaron or rather, Uncle Aaron is the eldest in our team, who celebrates his 40th birthday today the 13th of August. He may be the eldest, but he has the most energy in our group! There’s never one time we’ve caught him feeling down or having the mellow moments, but he’s just so full of happiness, wackiness, lameness and full of strange facial expressions. That’s his gift, the gift of youth. He doesn’t look 40. Haha! We are all very encouraged to have him around because he lightens situations and he doesn’t scold us if we do anything wrong but reminds us gently what we should do. The thing that amazes me about him is that he knows when to be serious and when to crack jokes. I find that very hard to do. He has been an encourager to us, he constantly gives us compliments and really funny ones to put back the smile on our face. He can make loads of funny animal sounds and the best he can imitate is the sound of a horse. That makes his name, Chief Horse Face.
Sarah came across to me as someone really quiet at first. But when she voices out her opinions, then I came to understand why she behaves like that. She is silent at times because she listens and observes. She reads plenty of books and her knowledge is really good and intelligent. Sarah is very matured for her age. I like the way she carries herself. She carries a quiet confidence in her. She is very caring, full of concern and takes the effort to mix with the fellow Cambodian youths. I see her as someone who has a big heart, a bit heart for her studies, her hobbies, for the people around her and for God’s work. She studies medic at IMU and is in her third year and will be leaving for Sydney next year to further her studies. She was the one who was doing the medical work at the villages and that brings her name, Squaw Healing Hands.
Debbie Ann Loh has a quiet spirit. She, as Kau Sern describes, is a true background worker. Silent, thinks plenty and is careful with her words. While working with her in preparation of our workshop, I found that she is quite detail as well, which was very helpful to me because I’m such a disorganized person in terms of thoughts and words. Debbie is very humble because when she has a suggestion, she doesn’t force it on anyone but leaving the other party an option to choose. She talks very softly and she is such a sweet person. She will be studying Food Science at UCSI as well and that makes me an ancestor to her. LOL! Debbie has a gift in prayer. She may look small and timid but when she opens her mouth to pray, don’t play play! Her prayers are powerful and it speaks directly to your heart. See? God doesn’t only use outstanding people to do His work. Outstanding in the sense loud, extremely good looking, physically fit, rich and etc. Well, she gained the name Squaw Think A Lot, which ended up sounding like Squatting a lot. I think she should be called Squaw Prayer Warrior. J Keep it up, Debbie.
Joel is an all-rounder, talented and a disciplined person. He is an excellent student, in the sense that he is good and really good in many things. Semua pun dia boleh. Pau ka liao. Okay, for the benefit of my foreign friends, I was saying in Malay and Hokkien that he can do a wide number of things. He’s also going to be studying medic overseas, either in Australia or UK. Joel is also very intelligent and has a strong memory. He managed to learn quite a number of Khmer words and remembers them! That makes him catches language easily. He’s good in sports and he is a tennis state player, ex-school captain for the tennis club too. Joel holds firmly to his beliefs and is someone reliable. He doesn’t break his principles and one of it is food. We tried our best tempting him to eat some durian biscuits but he just refused. Reliable in the sense that when he is told to do something, he does it well and even gives more than what one would expect. ‘A pleasing servant’ is what I would describe him as. Joel is Uncle Aaron’s sidekick. Both are equally lame. Hahaa! He comes up with lame games and gets us all frustrated and confused, especially Kau Sern. Joel is in charge of worship and he plays the guitar really well. So he is called Chief String Strum.
Jo-Ann, my sister, Kau Sern’s wife, is our accounts manager and handles the logistics. Also a background worker, she can be extremely detailed which is good because she keeps track of our spending. I really appreciate her doing all that work, from booking our flights, buying our foodstuff and medications, packing the boxes and keeping track of our money because it is one burden lifted off us, the rest of the team. I think if I handled it, the money would have been lost along the way on the airplane, gliding down to the jungles of Thailand. Jo is a phlegmatic person, meaning she doesn’t overly gets excited about things and just go with the flow. Jo is very observant as well, and she has the heart to help Esther with the Khmer Life business by looking out and giving Esther more ideas. (Esther Ding is the lady whom we stayed with. A very enterprising woman, she works for DUMC and Khmer Life is a gift shop that sells handmade stuff, mainly bags. It is also an opportunity for the Cambodians to do business using the abundant resources they have) She basically sees needs at the corner of other needs. Needs that we have overlooked or never thought about. Well, because her husband’s name is Chief Trousers First, she was crowned with the name Squaw Blouse First.
Julia is someone really, really funny. She was my room mate during this trip and I enjoyed talking to her a lot. She can have sudden outbursts of excitement and she speaks in a funny exaggerated voice. Julia is our camera woman. She recorded all the memories we left in Cambodia and took heaps of photos too. Julia to me is someone hungry for the Lord. She is very clear of what she believes in and doesn’t compromise her standards. But what I really like most about her is that she is very open with her sharing. I’m not sure if she was open with the other team members, but I had a good time listening to her share with me during the nights when we were about to sleep. I’ve learned a bit more about DUMC while talking to her because she is involved in a number of ministries at DUMC. DUMC is my church by the way. Julia also lightens situations when she starts talking. She is someone very practical and is straightforward. Oh well, she gained the name Squaw Pretty Face because her face is photogenic and she has a very nice smile.
Debbie Debbie is my partner in crime. We were both acting as bad people in both skits and really enjoyed ourselves. Debbie2 is amazing. Her faith in God really opens my eyes to learn to trust the work of the Holy Spirit more. She can just go up on the stage and share however the Holy Spirit prompts her to, which is something I really want to learn. She keeps saying that she is very ‘cheong hei’ or rather, long-winded in English whenever she shares or presents something. It is true, she can talk a LOT! But you know what, it is a good thing we have someone like her in our team to start the ball rolling. When she explains in detail, it gives us a clearer understanding of what she is trying to say, and this is something I also need to learn because sometimes I talk in very choppy sentences till no one understands what I’m saying. Debbie2 is someone who is very emotional. She feels easily for people and is easily moved. She is able to show her emotions openly through actions and words, which is quite rare for many. She got the name Squaw Fair Fair, because her skin is really, soya bean fair.
J
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8. Our Mini Vacation
We consider this not only a mission trip, but also a mini vacation, as it is a foreign country to us that we haven’t stepped into before. We experienced quite many new things. The thing that humoured most of us was the gecko, or ‘tokai’. We didn’t get to see one, but apparently it is like the size of a baby crocodile and except that it lives on trees. Every early morning and evening, you can hear them go, “gedek-gedek-gedek-gedek-gedek-GECK-KO!!...(another one replies) GECK-KO!!” This goes on for quite a few minutes, and it goes ‘GECK-KO’ all the way till some of us lost our sleep cause they were quite loud.
On the way back from Sralau Ton, Tin Tin, my interpreter brought me to visit a dam. It is the first dam built in that area, not in Baray, not too sure of the name of that place. But it is like one of the hang-out place for many, because it’s like a mini beach for the people there. The dam generates electricity 11 km radius to the villages around it.
The Dam
I spotted a light bug. It was dark in our room, but I saw this greenish light. I have never seen a green light bug before and it was quite a big bug. Excitedly, I tried snapping a photo of it but I failed because in desperation due to the dying battery of my camera, I snapped it with a flash, which was really pointless so I deleted it. The poor bug must have got a fright of its life and it took it a while to shine back again. LOL! Excitedly, I emptied my plastic bag of cotton used for my face and caught the bug to show it to the rest.
(Friday) On our way to Phnom Penh, we rode in the van with Esther and we stopped by the stalls along the road that were selling all kinds of stuffs and we tried their local foods. The first one was spiders. Sarah and I ate the full spider and it tasted great, like some kind of chips. I wouldn’t mind eating them again. Then we tried the Cambodian apples, which were green and tiny. It cannot be kept longer than a day because it will go brown, which was a pity cause I thought of buying some back to Malaysia. I got addicted to it. We also had fried banana slices without any added sugar and that was FANTASTIC! I ate so much till I nearly got myself another sore throat. We ate lotus seeds, sea coconuts and honey pineapples too. Then later on we stopped at a place full of hammocks, where couples come here to date. It’s quite a nice place to relax because it’s windy and while resting you can eat corn with pickled radish. It was awesome! We hung out there for about 10 minutes.
I know that's a weird picture. It's a sea coconut.
Fried Spider. Now you see it.
Now you don't!

Lotus

Cambodian Apple. You must try it.


This is the hammock place where couples come to date. And that's how we eat corn
while resting on the hammock.

That's the corn. It's a bit different than ours in Malaysia. Sorry for my appearance. I
haven't seen myself in the mirror for 4 days. I'm serious.In the evening, we did a prayer walk around the ‘heart’ of Phnom Penh. How Phnom Penh got its name was through a real story. It is a name of a woman. Once upon a time there was flood. This lady saw a tree trunk floating by and pulled it up with the help of friends and relatives. Then they saw the four-face Buddha on the trunk. Therefore, they brought soil and made a hill and erected the four-face Buddha, which you can see today, and that’s where we were. The name Phnom Penh came from that woman, if I’m not mistaken, her name was Phnom Dom Penh. Later on, they dropped the ‘Dom’ and that’s where you get Phnom Penh. It means, a city of many hills, but the city is actually flat and that one hill is a man-made hill. Hmm…the story doesn’t sounds very sensible, but I guess that’s what I heard. (Team members, please correct me if I’m wrong!). It was a very good prayer walk, because it got us all ‘connected’ with the place and the people. As we walked and prayed, we observed our surroundings, we felt and saw all kinds of oppression. It grieved us in a way. As for me, I could sense so strongly the power of evil taking captive the souls in this country. The people long to be free, from this power they do not understand. Outwardly they may smile, but inside, they are going through a silent grief, as Joel mentioned. God softened my heart, because He allowed me to feel for the people. Before this trip, God left me with this sentence “See with My eyes and grieve for My people”. These people have so much burden, bitterness and unforgiveness. I felt the Lord strongly telling me that we need to pray for them constantly, intercede for them daily, because they do not know how to seek, how to ask and what to ask for. The sources they turn to, only leads them deeper into oppression.
At night, we went on a boat ride with Esther Ding, Pastors Kenneth and Yin Meng and family on the Tonle Sap river after visiting the Tuol Sleng museum. It was an awesome ride, because of the nice breeze and the sunset. Sarah and I were sitting at the deck of the boat, saying how romantic God is. The sunset and the gentle breeze is His signature to us, telling us how much we’re loved, and to me it was like a ‘thank you for being in My team’. It was a good ‘finish’ to our trip, as that was how we ended the day. We had our dinner on the boat and then headed to Pastors Kenneth and Yin Meng’s house, back to comfort zone! We got to sleep on mattresses, pillows and used fans! But some of us couldn’t sleep because we weren’t used to the sudden comfort.
Boat ride on Tonle Sap
Dinner on boat ride

Lovely sunset in CambodiaThe next morning, which was on Saturday the 12th of August, we went to the Russian Market. We had beef noodles which were super yummilicious! We bought many gifts for people, they sold bag packs, brand: The North Face for like really low price. I bought a 40 litre bag for US $ 11. Great bargain there. I was harassed to buy hand made cards, as you know when people see foreigners, they’ll try to target you and make you buy their stuff. I got cheated, so I won’t tell you how much I paid for those cards.
Russian Market
Having our breakfast in Russian Market, beef noodles! Gee..just realized I've been talking about food so often! Typical Asian...
Later on we ate a WONDERFUL lunch! Ohhhh….we had Num Phang, which means ‘bread’ in Khmer language. There were 2 ways of preparation of the bread. They used the French bread. The first one had beef stuffings, where we opened it up and added ham and pickled veggies in it. The second one was eaten with beef stew. Awesome awesome awesome!! Then later on, we greedily tried this ice-cream in coconut. There are two large scoops of ice-cream in the coconut, where you eat it with the flesh of the coconut. The water has been poured out into a glass so we drank that later. The choices of ice-creams were jackfruit, chocolate, vanilla, durian. That was all I remembered. I had a durian cum chocolate. Their durian ice-cream got kick! It’s like eating the real durian except that it’s cold. MMMmmmmMMMm…
The Shop we had our lunch
That's Pastor Kenneth, the one front most
Num Phang
Ice-cream in coconut. Mine was durian ice-cream and chocolate ice-cream, eaten with the wafers beside it on the plate.
After that we headed on to the Central Market, which I wouldn’t recommend because the people at the market were very rude. Anyway, Sarah and Aaron tried fried crickets and beetles. She said that the crickets tasted even better than the spiders. I didn’t try simply because I was too full and really upset with the lady at the store for scolding me while I was trying to snap a shot at the crickets. Whereas the beetle, it had the smell which it releases when provoked, and Sarah could actually taste it. Yum…
Sago worms which I didn't try
Crickets and beetles which Sarah and Aaron tried. Somehow, I thank the Lord for chips eventhough I don't really eat them...
Most of us bought a large tin of durian flavoured biscuits. It was served during the camp and we were all so excited about it, and thought that it would be a great gift to our Malaysian friends. However, thanks to Air Asia, they threw the tins around, some of our tins were badly dented and some had broken the glass on the tin.
J
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